![]() --Kausalya Saptharishi BEING BOYS Edited by Deeya Nayar and Radhika Menon Tulika Publishers, Chennai, 2015, pp. 144, Rs. 225.00 VOLUME XXXIX NUMBER 11 November 2015 It’s not very often that one gets access
to the rarefied world of boys who are
on the cusp of becoming men. This
is a precarious world they occupy, often
populated with insensitive adults, jeering
peers, and unfathomable fears—some
imaginary, some unfounded—that threatens to come all undone at
the slightest provocation or insult. Thankfully, Being Boys is a refreshing
revelation of the male adolescent psyche that doesn’t resort
to stereotypes of what boys should be like or aspire to become. The
diverse pieces contained in this anthology are about boys who find
themselves in that most vulnerable and trying phase of growing up
angst—the pre-teen and teen years, resolutely leading up to adulthood.
Each story or essay is an eye-opener and approaches this subject
with a veritable mixture of wit, humour, intelligence, empathy, courage
and wisdom.
In Ranjit Lal’s ‘General Apron Strings’, the diffident fourteen-yearold
Aditya shows that boys need not always be ‘hard-wired’ to follow
the beaten path that’s expected of their gender. The hilarious ‘Rave On’
by Bharat Shekhar has even the formidable Ravana grappling with teenage
issues—to the power ten! Swaminathan, in R.K. Narayan’s ‘A Hero’
overcomes one of his greatest fears, an emotion boys are not supposed to
admit to. In ‘Rinku’s Hair’ by Amandeep Sandhu, a young Sikh boy is
desperate to chop off his long locks in order to blend in with the other
boys in his class. ‘On Founder’s Day’ is Vikram Seth’s brutally honest
account of his boarding school days, undoubtedly mirroring the sentiments
of scores of schoolboys who go through unspoken rituals and
trauma, silently taking it all in ‘like a man’.
When I set out to read this book, I was intrigued by the mix of
authors whose contributions figure in this anthology—more so
women writers giving a peek into boys’ rites of passage into manhood.
This is why I was pleasantly surprised to see Niveditha
Subramaniam and Sowmya Rajendran nailing it in ‘Destroy, Boy’,
an adolescent’s boy’s rib-tickling account of a stubborn pimple that
refuses to vanish. In ‘Ugly Boy’, Devika Cariapa dips her pen into
history to show that even the mighty Emperor Ashoka was once a
vulnerable, insecure child. The canvas is wide and multi-layered in
Being Boys. The anthology is a commendable effort by Tulika Publishers
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