Women: At Home and OutsideAnamika HER GOLD AND HER BODY By Jamila Verghese Vikas Publishing House, New Delhi, 1980, pp. 228, Rs. 60.00 WOMEN'S QUEST FOR POWER By Devaki Jain Vikas Publishing House, New Delhi, 1980, pp. 272, Rs. 75.00 VOLUME V NUMBER 2 September/October 1980 Newly-married women being tortured to death
for the sake of dowry has become such a common event these days that it has
almost ceased to shock. And here, in the routine appearance of small in.
significant paragraphs in the crime briefs column of newspapers of young women
burning themselves ‘accidentally’ while working in the kitchen, lies the danger
of our beginning to accept yet another form: of mind-boggling cruelty as
inevitable. After all, there is a point beyond which horror ceases to horrify,
the human mind's capacity for intense emotions being limited. Besides, our
newspapers rarely follow up these terse reports culled from the daily police
bulletin, with detailed investigation. For, in the sensation-loving world of
journalism even man biting dog would cease to be news if it happened day in and
day out.
A book that seeks to paint the sordid details
of the hard-headed money-talk 'that accompanies every marriage deal in India,
and goes on to provide a blow-by-blow account of the physical and mental
battering that a bride receives at the hands of her lord and master and in-laws,
was therefore long overdue and we ought to be thankful to Jamila Verghese for
attempting to piece together from newspaper reports and a lifetime's experience
and observation, a picture of the torture and humiliation of the woman who is
bartered away in marriage by her parents.
Her book gives detailed accounts of true
cases; and yet it could be a book about any woman, or every woman rolled into
one suffering woman—the typical Indian wife. It is a case study
that takes into account our everyday encounter with the hardships and sorrows
of other women and their everyday experience. Facts are fortified with soul
searching to recreate the suffocating atmosphere within which most of our women
spend all their life. And yet, somehow, the mix is not quite right. Perhaps the
gruesomeness of it all would have been more telling if the stark facts had been
allowed to speak for themselves, without any attempt to give them body and
flesh through the dramatic devise of dialogue.
Jamila Verghese tries to analyse the social
factors that have led to the subjugation of women and their being used as
pawns in a game which men play. It ends in a pessimistic note. And yet, for any
kind of salvation for women we ... Table of Contents >> |